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Ther is nothing worse than the stench of cat pee on your carpets or rugs.

You scold your cat out of anger, thinking it will help in setting him straight. And as a preventive measure, you place a couple more litter boxes in strategic areas around your home.

Then, a few days later, more pee on the carpet again. You try changing a few more things around the house, but he keeps on urinating on the carpet regardless.

It has become a recurring habit, and you decide to end it once and for all and Google, “why does my cat keep peeing on the floor or carpet?

Which brings us here, to this blog post. You’re reading this because you want to know why your cat keeps on urinating on your carpet – and you also want to know how to stop it.

Why Does My Cat Keep Peeing on My Carpet?

Cats are immaculate creatures that normally have no trouble urinating in their litter box. So if your cat suddenly decided to pee outside of the box, chances are that your cat’s not being an arse and he’s just dealing with either a medical problem or a behavioural issue.  


You see, cats may also suffer from medical issues that will cause changes in their urinary behaviours. These include a urinary tract infection or inflammation, blockage of the urinary tract, kidney problems, metabolic diseases, arthritis, thyroid problems, and liver conditions.

Signs of urinary tract infection or inflammation include meowing while urinating, squatting for long intervals, urinating more frequently, and blood in the urine. The rest of the possible medical problems, however, are hard to spot without the help of a veterinarian.

If you want to rule out the possibility that it’s a medical problem causing your cat’s sudden peeing habit, you should take him to the vet.


Cats are sensitive animals whose mood and behaviour are often influenced by their environment. When cats have trouble adapting to new circumstances, for instance, they either get anxious, frustrated or stressed.

These emotions can cause drastic changes in a cat’s urination habits and can be triggered by the addition of a new person in the house, the presence of another cat, relocating to a new place, or a home remodelling project. Cats will eventually adapt to these new circumstances, and the urinating habit will disappear once they do so.

The location, condition and contents of their litter box are also possible reasons for your cat’s unusual urination habit.

Cats love some privacy and prefer to have their “bathroom” situated somewhere that has less noise and household traffic. If it’s located in the corner of a busy living room, move it somewhere quieter and less busy. It also helps to place a number of litter boxes around the home to give your cat plenty of options.

There’s also a possibility that your cat is discouraged from using the litter box because he doesn’t like the new litter material you’re using, so try going back to the previous brand you’re using and observe if there are any changes. If it doesn’t work, try experimenting between different litter materials until you find the one that your cat prefers.

Finally, the condition of your cat’s litter box may also because of his unusual urination behaviour. Some cats don’t like to do its business in a dirty litter box, so you need to clean it regularly for it to be an ideal place to pee.

Sometimes, no matter how many times you clean a litter box, a cat may refrain from using it due to the smells and stains that cling to the box. If you’re still using an old litter box, buy a new one. And make it a habit to replace it with a new one after a few months of using.


Medical and behavioural causes are among the possible reasons why your cat suddenly decided to urinate on your carpet. If you want to put a stop to this unusual behaviour, you should either bring him to the vet, wait for your cat to get accustomed to the new circumstances in your home, or make the necessary litter box changes.

Not to be mistaken with the basic need for security (food, shelter, medical care, etc.), home security is important because it protects your home and children.

Even if you live in a nice neighbourhood you should never ever be ill-prepared when it comes to the security of your family and your home.

Guard dogs are one of the best deterrents to home intruders, especially when they are given proper training. They are brave, devoted, and won’t hesitate to protect their owners from unwanted people who are clearly up to no good.

Aside from that, guard dogs also have heightened senses of hearing and smell, which means they could sense danger better than humans and technology could.

Interested in getting a guard dog to boost your home’s security? Before you head out there and buy a dog, dog collars and dog tags, it is best to do your research as not all dog breeds would make great guard dogs. So be sure to get a dog with a breed more suitable for doing guard duty.

Here are the 3 best guard dog breeds:


The appearance of the Rottweiler is enough to intimidate strangers who are up to no good, and their reputation as dangerous dogs when being featured in movies and TV shows also helps make them even more intimidating. Oh, and I almost forgot to mention their bellowing growls which could instil fear and panic to those who are unfortunate enough to be on the receiving end of it.

Some people might think that the appearance, reputation and growl of Rottweilers are some of the reasons why they are on this list, but their interesting character is what actually makes them an amazing guard dog. Like German Shepherds, Rottweilers are trained to be police dogs due to their exceptional intelligence and confidence. Though their looks are quite intimidating, Rottweilers are surprisingly affectionate with their family and are safe around children (given that the Rottweiler received proper training and socialization as a puppy). They are also known for being very protective of their loved ones.

Before you opt for a Rottweiler as your family’s guardian, you should know that this breed needs extensive socialization and training from early puppyhood. Otherwise, they might grow up with behavioural problems and therefore pose a risk around children. And even though Rottweilers like children (especially when they grew up together), it’s highly recommended to always supervise them when they’re around kids.

German Shepherd

The German Shepherd is one of the most popular dog breeds out there. These large, muscular dogs are so intelligent, capable, versatile, strong, and easy to train that police forces from all over the world are using them as police dogs in various capacities. Other than that, German Shepherds are also known for their confidence, courage, and loyalty. All of these qualities are what make them a great guard dog for families.

The imposing physical stature of German Shepherds is perfectly complemented by their outstanding strength, and this combination of size and strength is what gives them the capability to overpower humans who are many times larger than them. That means a German Shepherd is one of the best allies you could ever have during home invasion scenarios. But having a German Shepherd is enough to serve as a deterrent to people with malicious intent.

If you’re worried about the possibility that the large and strong German Shepherd might be too dangerous around your kids, don’t be. This dog breed is easy going, approachable and affectionate with their family. They will only showcase their true strength and protective nature when they and their loved ones are being threatened. In fact, German Shepherds are not afraid to put themselves in danger when it comes to protecting their loved ones.


The Akita is an incredibly powerful breed in terms of size, strength and protective instincts – all of which are qualities that make them an excellent guard dog. But out of all their traits, their intense suspicions towards strange people and animals are perhaps their most powerful attribute because it is what gives them the ability to be one step ahead of any potential danger.

The imposing stature of these burly, heavy-boned dogs makes their presence quite intimidating. But don’t let their frightening looks fool you, as Akitas also have a goofy and playful side that they tend to show to people they’re comfortable with. Aside from that, they are also sweet and affectionate with family members. In addition, Akitas are also known for being fiercely loyal to their owners.

There’s no denying that the Akita is an excellent breed for home security, but this dog breed is not for everyone. Akitas need to be given proper training, socializing and enormous amounts of respect in order for them to turn into a trusty guardian for your family. So unless you’re certain that you can give them all of those, you might want to steer clear from the Akita.

I am a stay at home Mum that does website design and development in Wollongong as a freelancer so when choosing the decor for my children’s room, my objective is to find something that is not only value for money but cozy, durable and not much of a hassle to clean or maintain.

When navigating the world it’s only normal that kids have accidents such as crayon staining, liquid spillages, and dirt streaks. And even when it’s not playtime, there’s always a chance that a minor disaster might occur. For these reasons, their room needs a reliable rug that is simple to clean and doesn’t wear down easily from regular maintenance.

Other than that, the fact that kids normally spend a lot of time in their rooms means that the rug should be tough enough to withstand regular contact from a variety of physical activities.

So, here’s a list of cheap rugs that are the cleanest – and most durable – types of rugs that belong to a children’s room:

  • Cotton    

While synthetic materials are usually recommended for kids’ rooms due to their resistance to certain natural and unnatural conditions, some natural fibres, like cotton, are also suitable for installation in such spaces. Cotton rugs are not only durable, versatile, and naturally hypoallergenic, but they are very easy to clean as well, which can be done via washing machine or air drying. Additionally, cotton rugs are so cozy that your little ones would most likely enjoy doing their activities on top of one.

  • Acrylic
Acrylic Kids Rugs

Acrylic rugs are one of the best rug types for children’s rooms. This synthetic material boasts outstanding resistance against mould, mildew, moisture, and stains – some of which are common causes of rug deterioration in kids’ rooms. Plus, an acrylic rug has this unique ability to hold onto its colours despite wear and tear and is much more affordable compared to other rug types. When it comes to tidying it up, all you have to do is throw your acrylic rug in a washing machine and it’s ready to use again. It looks and feels cosy, too!

  • Polypropylene

Designed to resemble sisal, a polypropylene rug is a synthetic material that offers a high level of comfort and beauty to any room. Not only that, but a polypropylene rug is also extremely durable and resilient, giving it maximum tolerance against messes, scratches, extreme weather conditions, and the tests of time. Not to mention that it’s also colourfast and easy to maintain. With all of its extraordinary qualities, a polypropylene rug is definitely an excellent choice for children’s rooms. Additionally, this rug type’s durability and resilience is also the same reason why it’s a popular rug option for outdoor areas.

Just like your interior, your outdoor living space also deserves to receive a couple of improvements that can enhance your backyard’s appeal and improve your home’s total monetary value.

There are many reasons why you should improve your outdoor area:

An outdoor living space makes for a great venue when there are family gatherings and special events, so treating it with one or more improvements can help you amplify its aesthetic appeal that you and your guests can enjoy.

An outdoor living space is also good for your physical and mental health, and several additions will enhance your backyard’s capability to benefit your well-being.

Below are some of the best ways to spruce up your backyard and make it even more attractive and enjoyable:

Hang Outdoor Lights

Perhaps the most affordable entry in this list, hanging decorative outdoor lights is an excellent way to add ambience and style to your backyard. Other than that, it also provides a classy type of illumination for your outdoor living space once the sun sets, which means that getting some outdoor lights giving you a balance in both functional and aesthetic benefits. Whether you hang the lights across the trees, around the tree trunks, on the fencing, or over the patio – lights are a flexible decorative element.   

Install a Pool

Although swimming pool installations are an investment, they are the ultimate backyard amenity that can transform any outdoor living space into something extraordinary. In addition to their remarkable aesthetic impact, backyard pools (whether above ground pools or inground pools) also offer a little bit of something for everyone – from kids who are looking to play and escape the summer heat, to adults who want to swim a few laps for exercise, to teenagers who want to host a fun poolside party with their buddies. Just make sure to hire concrete pool builders with a proven track record, like Steller Pools in Canberra, to guarantee a high-quality job that will last long.

Add a Playground

Do you have children or grandchildren? Build a safe and fun backyard playground for them to enjoy during their free time. Not only will a backyard playground enhance your outdoor area, it will also promote social development and independence to children, helping you spend less cash on expensive activities and day trips, and allow you to get more things done around the house without having to set supervised playdates in the neighbourhood playground. For the ultimate playground, include swings, slides or climbing walls. Similar to installing a pool, hiring skilled playground installers is important to ensure the safety of your children while playing.

Build a Fence

Enclosing your backyard with a fence is a low-key, good way to add a sense of completeness in your outdoor living area. Aside from its aesthetic benefits, a fence can also protect your outdoor area from intruders and add a layer of privacy that serves as an obstacle to the prying eyes of nosy neighbours. If you want, you can increase the attractiveness level of your fencing by adding a variety of decorative elements, including hanging vines, flowery plants, succulents in framed boxes, painted crates, and birdhouses.

Get a Fire Pit

What better way to spend a weekend evening than by sitting beside a warm fire pit in your backyard together with your friends or your significant other? Whether you opt to make it a DIY project or hire someone else to build it for you, getting a fire pit is an affordable way to enhance your outdoor living space. And aside from providing a cosy place to relax during cold nights, throw in a few pieces of furniture and outdoor decorations beside your fire pit and you have the ultimate hangout spot.

When I returned to work after having Olivia it meant big changes for our family. 

In preparation, I had to put together a checklist well in advance of what needed to be done and what to pack for Day Care to help minimize potential problems and to make the transition easier.

It is hard though to find a collaboration of everything so below I am sharing a full list of tips and what worked for Olivia and I for other Mom’s also transitioning a child to Daycare.

“Be mindful that Infant Daycare, ages six to twelve months, the age most babies are going into daycare and requires a little more pre-preparation at home.”

 Getting your baby to take a bottle

Getting baby to take a bottle

This can be a hugely stressful experience for any Mom planning to return to the workforce.  Introducing a regular bottle early on (generally not before 6 weeks of age as during this time babies and Moms are still learning to breastfeed) can be helpful in getting them to accept a bottle long term. Offering a regular bottle to your baby once or twice a week helps your baby to accept a bottle long before it’s required.

Bottle Checklist

Make sure you get some daycare labels and send in enough labelled bottles for the day plus an extra in case of an emergency. If your baby drinks formula, send it in pre-measured in each bottle. If you use powdered formula, your daycare provider can add water at feeding time. 

If your child is breastfeeding, try and set up a breast pumping routine before your return to work and if you are sending breast milk, ask your daycare how they want you to pack it.

Most babies are ready to start drinking water from a sippy cup between 6 and 9 monthsand to prevent tooth decay the American Dental Association recommends transitioning from a bottle to a training cup by your child’s first birthday.  Pack two sippy cups, make sure they are labelled with dishwasher safe and machine washable name labels.

Packing day care food if not supplied

If the food is not supplied at the daycare your child is attending ask your provider for a list of suggested foods as well as banned foods.  Research some Healthy Lunch Ideas, pick foods that are easy to pack and that don’t need to be reheated.  Make sure you label all containers.

Getting baby to sleep in a crib

Getting your baby to sleep in the crib and getting them to stay asleep in the crib will ultimately be less stressful on your child as opposed to a daycare worker doing it. Start a bedtime routine at around 3 months old if you haven’t already.

Crib Checklist

Sheets, blankets and pacifiers. Some daycares require you to provide crib sheets and blankets for your child. Although some centers have laundry services pack an extra set of each to be on the safe side.  Label these with iron on clothing labels and if your child loves their pacifier pack extras and make sure to use not just name labels butname labels that are waterproof.

 Diapers and clothing

 I recommend packing 8 to 10 labelled diapers, a full container of wipes and if required diaper rash ointment or cream.  If you are using cloth diapers, make sure to include extra plastic pants and a resealable bag or container for the dirty ones.

Children get messy so pack extra clothing

Make sure you put name labels on bibs and bodysuits and pack extras.  If your child is a toddler, they will be doing craft, learning to feed themselves or potty training.  Make provisions for this by packing at least two sets of extra clothing.  If potty training, include a full package of underwear, practical pants that a child can independently pull down and extra socks.

Pack at least one hat, all with name labels for clothes.

Did I miss something?  Do you have any additional recommendations for a child starting Daycare?

Moms around the world are always looking for ways to create a cozy home that all members of the family enjoy and making sure everyone looks forward to coming home and making it a place that supports success and encourages overall happiness.

Your son, daughter, and even your husband will absolutely enjoy and appreciate a comfortable living environment, so I have put together a couple of simple tips that can transform your home into something extra cosy.

Add a Little Touch of Nature

Making a house cozy

Adding plants to interior spaces can not only increase oxygen levels, they help add life to a room and make a space feel calming and homey. Aside from that, it also has the ability to reflect light and brighten up dark walls. In order for you to achieve the best possible level of cosiness using plants, place several of them on top of your decorative furnishings, in front of windows to give and outside/inside feel and in corners of the room.

Switch to Soft Lighting

Traditional lights are great for illuminating a space during nighttime, but they can be harsh on the eyes at times. However warm-toned LED lights as well as being the most efficient form of lighting also provide a cosy candle-lit glow that is enough to gently illuminate a room without making your eyes feel uncomfortable. You can switch to soft lighting by replacing the standard light bulbs.

Get a Rug

Rugs made out of wool or synthetic fibre are well known for feeling good on your feet and having an aesthetically pleasing appearance, layering them on strategic spots around your home is enough to add a nice dose of cosiness for everyone. Flat-weave and sisal rugs are popular options when the weather outside is warm. I love how you can a whole room by changing the rug.

Add Seating to a Bedroom

When a bedroom has a cosy single couch sitting on the corner, it helps give the space a lounge-like vibe that will tempt anyone to just sit and relax. Vintage leather seating and single lounge couches are both excellent choices if you want to cosy up a bedroom in your home. Because apart from being incredibly comfortable, their good-looking appearance helps change the feel in a particular space.

cosy up a house

Incorporate Fuzziness

Do you know what’s even better than fur when it comes to cosiness? Faux fur! Whether it’s a wall hanging, a throw, or a carpet, faux fur will help make your home super cosy and luxurious. What’s even better about this material is that your faux fur options are almost unlimited as you can do various things with it, like drape it over the arm of a sofa or layer several of them over a foot stool.

As parents we all want nothing more then to get our children off devices and out doing something over the school holidays. However with hundreds of school holiday options, workshops, camps and activities, it is hard to know what are the best school holiday programs available that offer real value to our children.

To help like-minded parents I have researched and put together the school holiday program options that offer real value to children based in Sydney.

Eliminate the Fear of Public Speaking

school holiday programs sydney

According to several studies, glossophobia, or speech anxiety, is one of the most common phobias found in adults. That is why this school holiday program is rated number one. Enrolling your child into public speaking classes in Sydney gives them confidence while they are still young. Sydney Speaking School offers courses in public speaking for kids of various ages. Their experienced speaking coaches, along with their student-centred teaching, means that your child will learn how to confidently deliver speeches and clearly present ideas in almost any environment.

Enjoy Activities Alongside the Beauty of Nature

Sydney Olympic Park is fun-filled offering tons of awesome activities, ranging from science workshops and adventure camps to sports programs and archery classes catering for all children. You could enrol your child in something different every day and they cater for all ages.

Learn How to Write Code

Sydney School Holiday Programs

Code Camp offers summer holiday programs that cover everything from the most basic and important programming concepts, up to HTML, CSS and JavaScript skills for building websites, 2D games, or augmented-reality games. By the time your child’s stay at Code Camp is over, your child will know how to design and build their own application or website with ease. These programs also gives your child a solid foundation of programming, setting them up for the future.

Learn How to Play Golf

What better way to keep your child active during the school holidays than with fun and engaging golf camps and clinics? With the help of their highly qualified PGA trainers who also happen to coach some of the Northern Beaches’ top golfers, Pittwater Golf Centre offers anything from a school holiday program and a mini chef golf camp to 1- or 2-day golf clinics – all are applicable for children ages 5 – 13 years old. By letting them attend the centre’s camps or clinics, your child can learn the game of golf for life and open up more possibilities for them involving the sport in the future.

Now that I am working full-time I’m starting to rely on my crock-pot alot!

This is an easy peasy “dump it all in” sort of recipe that is right up my alley now that I don’t have time for faffing around with food, but still want something nutritious for my family.

Vegetable Chilli

1 onion
lots of garlic 
6 mushrooms
2 courgettes 
2 carrots
lots of a leafy green vege. like kale or silver beat
Chop the vegetables and add:
1 tin of tomatoes
1 cup vegetable stock
1 can chilli beans
a good dash of cajun seasoning
and a good grate of pepper

Let this cook on low for 8 hours.

We ate it with corn chips, grated cheese and sour cream – nice over rice or in taco shells too!